時(shí)光荏苒，今天是我結(jié)婚七年的紀(jì)念日?；厥?2017 年 9 月 3 日那個(gè)美好的日子，仿佛就在昨天，而如今，已攜手走過(guò)了七個(gè)春秋。

這七年的婚姻生活，有苦有樂(lè)，猶如一首跌宕起伏的樂(lè)章。我們一起經(jīng)歷了生活的風(fēng)風(fēng)雨雨，共同品嘗了其中的酸甜苦辣。尤其是從去年到現(xiàn)在，先是老丈人離世，這突如其來(lái)的悲痛讓我們的心靈承受了巨大的沖擊。老丈人走后，愛(ài)人長(zhǎng)期照顧丈母娘，與她居住在一起，只有周末才能回來(lái)與我相聚，一起做飯，享受短暫的溫馨時(shí)光。

而我又做了心臟瓣膜置換術(shù)，那段艱難的時(shí)光，是愛(ài)與陪伴讓我挺了過(guò)來(lái)?！笆晟纼擅Ｃ?，不思量，自難忘。”老丈人的離去，讓我深刻地體會(huì)到了生命的無(wú)常。然而，也正是在這悲痛之中，我更加珍惜與家人在一起的每一刻。而我自己的手術(shù)，又讓我感受到了生命的脆弱與堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。在病榻上，愛(ài)人的眼神中充滿了擔(dān)憂和關(guān)愛(ài)，那是我堅(jiān)持下去的動(dòng)力。

在這七年里，我們有過(guò)爭(zhēng)吵，有過(guò)淚水，但更多的是歡笑和溫暖?！霸谔煸缸鞅纫眸B(niǎo)，在地愿為連理枝?！蔽覀?cè)黄疸裤轿磥?lái)，為了共同的目標(biāo)而努力奮斗。那些一起度過(guò)的平凡日子，如今回憶起來(lái)，都充滿了溫馨和甜蜜。

“色不異空，空不異色，色即是空，空即是色?！薄缎慕?jīng)》中的這句話讓我明白，生活中的苦樂(lè)得失，都不過(guò)是過(guò)眼云煙。我們不應(yīng)過(guò)分執(zhí)著于眼前的困境，而應(yīng)保持一顆平和的心，去面對(duì)生活的種種變化。正如我們?cè)诨橐鲋杏龅降睦щy，雖然當(dāng)時(shí)覺(jué)得痛苦不堪，但當(dāng)我們走過(guò)那段路，再回首，會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)那些都是讓我們成長(zhǎng)和更加珍惜彼此的經(jīng)歷。

“一切有為法，如夢(mèng)幻泡影，如露亦如電，應(yīng)作如是觀?！薄督饎偨?jīng)》的智慧也讓我懂得，生活中的一切都是無(wú)常的，我們要學(xué)會(huì)放下執(zhí)念，珍惜當(dāng)下。雖然愛(ài)人與丈母娘居住在一起，我內(nèi)心還是會(huì)有痛苦，但我也明白這是她的責(zé)任和擔(dān)當(dāng)。

在未來(lái)的日子里，我希望我們能夠繼續(xù)相互扶持，共同面對(duì)生活的挑戰(zhàn)。無(wú)論遇到什么困難，我們都能緊緊相依，不離不棄。

我期待著我們能有更多的時(shí)間一起旅行，去看祖國(guó)的大好河山，感受不同的風(fēng)土人情；我希望我們能一起培養(yǎng)更多的興趣愛(ài)好，讓生活充滿樂(lè)趣。

未來(lái)的路還很長(zhǎng)，也許還會(huì)有風(fēng)雨，但我堅(jiān)信，只要我們心手相牽，就沒(méi)有什么能夠阻擋我們前行的步伐?！霸傅靡恍娜?，白首不相離。”在這七年的節(jié)點(diǎn)上，我感恩愛(ài)人的陪伴與付出，也期待著我們未來(lái)更多的七年，充滿愛(ài)與希望，幸福永遠(yuǎn)。

讓我們攜手共進(jìn)，迎接未來(lái)的每一個(gè)日出日落，讓我們的愛(ài)情在歲月的洗禮中愈發(fā)堅(jiān)固，熠熠生輝。

Time flies. Today marks the seventh anniversary of my marriage. Looking back at the wonderful day on September 3, 2017, it feels like it was just yesterday, and now we have walked hand in hand through seven years.

The seven years of marital life have been a mixture of joys and sorrows, like a fluctuating movement of music. We have experienced the ups and downs of life together and tasted the bittersweetness of it. Especially from last year until now, first, my father-in-law passed away, and this sudden grief dealt a huge blow to our hearts. After his passing, my partner has been taking care of my mother-in-law for a long time and living with her. Only on weekends can my partner come back to be with me, cook together, and enjoy the brief but warm moments.

I also underwent heart valve replacement surgery. During that difficult time, it was love and companionship that helped me pull through. "For ten years the living and the dead are boundless and indistinct. Even if not thinking, not forgetting." The death of my father-in-law made me profoundly realize the impermanence of life. However, it was precisely in this grief that I cherished every moment with my family even more. My own surgery made me feel the fragility and strength of life. On the sickbed, the look in my partner's eyes, full of worry and care, was my motivation to persevere.

During these seven years, we have had quarrels and tears, but there have been more laughter and warmth. "In heaven let us be two birds flying ever together, and on earth two trees with branches interlocked forever." We once envisioned the future together and strived for common goals. Those ordinary days spent together, when recalled now, are all filled with warmth and sweetness.

"Form does not differ from emptiness; emptiness does not differ from form. That which is form is emptiness; that which is emptiness form." This sentence from the "Heart Sutra" makes me understand that the joys and sorrows in life are but passing clouds. We should not be overly obsessed with the current predicaments but should maintain a peaceful heart to face the various changes in life. Just like the difficulties we encountered in our marriage, although it felt extremely painful at that time, when we look back after going through that period, we will find that those were all experiences that made us grow and cherish each other more.

"All conditioned phenomena are like a dream, an illusion, a bubble, and a shadow. They are like dew and lightning, and should be regarded thus." The wisdom of the "Diamond Sutra" also makes me understand that everything in life is impermanent. We must learn to let go of our attachments and cherish the present. Although my partner lives with my mother-in-law, and I still feel pain in my heart, I also understand that it is her responsibility and obligation.

In the days to come, I hope we can continue to support each other and jointly face the challenges of life. No matter what difficulties we encounter, we can stay closely together and never part.

I look forward to having more time to travel together, to see the great mountains and rivers of our motherland, and to experience different local customs and cultures. I hope we can cultivate more hobbies together to make life full of fun.

The road ahead is still long, and there may still be storms, but I firmly believe that as long as our hearts are joined, nothing can stop us from moving forward. "I wish to have the one hearted person until old age, never parting." At this juncture of seven years, I am grateful for my partner's companionship and dedication, and I also look forward to many more seven years in the future, filled with love and hope, and eternal happiness.

Let's move forward hand in hand, greeting every sunrise and sunset in the future, and let our love become stronger and shine brighter through the tests of time.